I think more people should learn the special ability called "TACT". You know, people with the tact of a bull-elephant should not ever be dealing with other people, irreguardless of thier skills. What is wrong with thinking before one speaks? Instead of saying that something looks like crap, why not just say that it doesn't appeal to you or something along the lines of not slapping the person in the face with some sort of remark. Sheeesh! What's so difficult about that!